Friday, July 25, 2014

Turmoil Behind Happiness


Happiness everywhere, putting a mask, wrapped in sorrow. A harsh reality, we keep smiling but alone from inside, looking for a person to drain out our salty ocean, full of some good and bad experiences from our past.


Every time, whether making plans to spend a joyful time or thinking otherwise, talking with ourselves only, something that our soul only can listen to. Perhaps, found a few loyal shoulders, but flowed with the flow of time; just because of their obligations or sometimes due to an unknown reason that we try to know but desperation all the time. Sometimes, loneliness is the necessity but reality is different; happiness comes for a short span. And, in that short moment, we live a life. 
Cheerful with tiny rain drops, but for how long, when everything has an expiry date. Most beautiful presents are always wrapped with hurdles, and it is said that problems are natural after every joy. Being neutral in every situation is the key to happiness, we will have to accept this fact. Unfortunately, we are not ready to accept the truth because it is human tendency. 

Sticking to the bad memories of aftermath and sharing your painful time with reliable shoulders; people will sympathize with you and will try to forget you that bad time, and if you changes yourself you will realize that what you have lost. You have lost actually the moments that you spent over-thinking of your problems.  

In search of happiness, we cover miles, reaches to the forts, mountain peaks, even to the bars, disc, entertainment events; just to get rid of our boredom. Being engaged in activities doesn't define involvement of intangible state into an activity, whether one is just stick to something for refreshment. After covering incessant roads, journey completes only when we learn to be happy in every state. Detachment is something different to be aloof, being a part of every act, but always neutral; obtaining inner-peace the way pass through the situations. Why I always prefer to be introvert, plenty of reasons are there. Every self-centered or introvert, get a person surely in his/her lifetime, this happens definitely and get a chance to change his/her vision how they see this world and things, and believe me, you will likely be cheated to learn a lesson that your inner voice and vision that grew with the time, was accurate. If, you see the people meeting you without any reason, stand by with you every-time even when their intuition don't allow them, you are really blissful to have them. This happens to make you meet with the real world where the persons being with you like a sheet anchor, are sometimes try to feign. 

Connection and separation are the two sides of a coin, and unfortunately, both bring about a lesson, a pain to show you the reality. Look around yourself, every soul is alone and every soul is in affinity, it is just a matter of perception. If you learn to enjoy your own presence & togetherness, always happy and feel cheerful to enjoy the present moments at fullest. 

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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Reading is the Necessity


I remember, I had read a phrase somewhere in a Spiritual Book that "Jaisa Saahitya hum padte hain, Hum waise hi bante hain". Translation: "We become exactly, the kind of literature we read".

We, Humans, learn from the consequences and experiences of others, actually from the people having greater exposure of the things than us. It is not possible for anyone to follow someone all the time, as we have different lives. And veterans are too busy to write each and every experience and piece of knowledge. Unfortunately, when they share their views and make thoughts immortal in form of words, we are busy with our useless gadgets and we feel impassive to read their works and lose a chance to see subtle ocean of knowledge. If I blame only youth, this will be partiality because what we learn, it depends on what we see around us. Good habits of our superiors always make a good impact on our choices and vice-versa. There was a time when people used to read books in their free time, now hardly we get time to spend alone or free, in case, if we get, try to waste it either with an idiot box or with any gadget connecting us with a virtual world using Internet. Youth used to follow their elders, their habits, hobbies & every activity was the source of learning, but now our elders are busy & can't afford to spend their time with books, so how we can set an example for ourselves. Apart from this, Even the newspapers are vanished by the e-media, latter shows unhealthy and untrue facts, but people enjoy, so its in trend. What I feel, printed news bulletins give better reports as compared to spicy and equivocation. 

Besides, If I talk about reading habits of people, I often find this as a hobby in oneself. No doubt, technology is the essence of man's life nowadays, though I believe it is fruitful only if it inculcates something good in us. An enthusiast would have achieved if he had used it accordingly. I appreciate the practices if one is using the gadgets to read e-books rather than wasting one's time. Even parents are forced by children to get a high speed connection with a saying that "It is the need of my studies", and how our guardian can refuse any demand linked with our studies. I strongly in favor of people who says that reading habits have reduced in children. Even, this society calls a child, book-worm, but there is no harm in being, as its not harmful to charge our mind from a source that is free.From our initial stage, we are learning, why? Because it is a necessity to grow, to earn, to understand how to deal with the situations and our reactions. Now, when we have grown up, its not that we should stop learning. From the very last day when we completed our studies, we never dare to read a Book, "how long we will study", this is the common question which we ask from ourselves. Its time we started enjoying life, so why I shall hold a book. But, true happiness can be attained only when we will have vision towards the situations, ups and downs of life; and that we can understand when we read the experiences of ignited minds. 


At last, I would like to say, we can choose our hobbies and interests as per our liking, but something that is the drill and source of energy, is "reading" only. Its never too late to start something good.

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